He is not my enemy

Posted: October 14, 2016 by impreciousent in Uncategorized

Society has mislead the minds of the people to believe that men and women constantly have to prove something to one another. Sadly we go day to day trying to prove we don’t need each other. But the scripture says, “The Lord God said, It is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Genesis 2:18 So why do we work so hard to be separate.

Well first let’s understand that a woman having a man/husband doesn’t make her weak or lack independence. Let’s take a quick look at Proverbs 31 the description of the virtuous woman or as some call the model of the perfect wife.

Proverbs 31:13-18 “She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.

Proverbs 31:23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.”


Now in those scriptures it shows the Virtuous woman as the following ways:









You may be saying but I don’t see those words…read it…in these scriptures the woman manages her self, her home /family, and her business. She does it in such a manner of dignity and integrity that her husband is looked upon with a higher level of esteem.
So the married woman is not designed to in dependent on a man, sorry, and unable to function. 
The true purpose as we saw in Genesis was to be there to assist one another.
Let’s look from another angle.

Like a puzzle the male and female are naturally designed to come together and become one. They perfectly come together and when that happens new life comes forth, pleasure takes place, stress is released, and more importantly bonds are built.

It is scientifically proven that men and women with healthy sex lives have less health issues. 

Even in business if you take a male or female that is single and successful and they get in a healthy, motivational, relationship with someone who supports and encourages their situation they grow reaching new heights.

Positivity = Productivity 

Now keep in mind scripture also states ““Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.” Proverbs‬ ‭18:22‬ ‭

So if a wife is a good thing why are we allowing the enemy to believe that we should be separate; battling and competing with one another instead of coming together as one. 

We make excuses…we point fingers…we listen to other people and what they have to think or say. 

Let’s be real no matter what anyone says about I don’t need a man or I don’t need a woman the body naturally desires one so the only person suffering with a burning bush late in the midnight hour is you because that same person talking all the great “I don’t need a ” foolishness goes home to someone.

Society lacks balance because the family lacks balance. Men and women balance one another always have always will it is in the natural physical, spiritual, and emotional build of the human body.
So I am a woman believes in God, an entrepreneur, a mother, and a published author. I consider myself to be strong, beautiful, intelligent, and extremely independent. Guess what I don’t fool myself…I know the value of having a strong, spirit operating man in my life. I also know the value I bring into the life of a man. 

When we read “A man’s gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men.” Proverbs‬ ‭18:16‬ ‭we always apply it to two places business and ministry. But doesn’t it apply to life in general.. could our gifts make room in our relationships?


Regardless of where you are spiritually the fact is we are not enemies.




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